Definition of "femme"

Then I turned to him and said, "O my lord, I have that to propose to thee wherein thou must not cross me; and this it is that, when we reach Baghdad, my native city, I offer thee my life as thy handmaiden in holy matrimony, and thou shalt be to me baron and I will be femme to thee."

1885, Richard Francis Burton, The Book of the Thousand Nights and a Night, Night 18

Theodore J. Flicker and George Kirgo have penned a good script in which Elvis is played off against four femmes […].

1983, Variety's Film Reviews: 1964–1967

Some of the most political dykes in town had already converted, tossing out their Levi's and Birkenstocks in favor of poodle skirts and heels. It was no longer a question of butch vs. femme, liberations vs. oppression. Clothes did not unmake the woman; clothes were just clothes.

1986 , Armistead Maupin, Babycakes (Tales of the City), pages 64–65

Monique whispered something to a butch sitting near her. The butch crossed the room and approached our table. “Hey,” she called to me. I didn't look up. “Hey, femme, you wanna dance with a real butch?”

1993, Leslie Feinberg, Stone Butch Blues, Los Angeles: Alyson Books, published 2003, page 32

Given the myth that lesbian femmes will eventually leave their butches for men, there is an understandable unwillingness to acknowledge bisexual femmes, who really might do it — as indeed they have every right to.

1997, Bi Academic Intervention, Bisexual Imaginary: Representation, Identity, and Desire, A&C Black, page 207

I love butches, though. I dated a femme once. That was wrong on so many levels.

2013, Michelle Gibson, Deborah Meem, Femme/Butch, page 103

The same is true of Goddess Spirituality spaces which are predicated on Radical Feminist rhetorics about Nature and the embodied experience – even those spaces which are open to trans women and nonbinary femmes may still fall back on language about the womb [...]

2018, Queer Magic: Power Beyond Boundaries (Lee Harrington, Tai Fenix Kulystin), page 79

[…] there is no story of Black pain deeper than that of Black fat women and femmes. […] / 1 Gender expansive for women, femmes, and nonbinary folks.

2019, The Lemonade Reader: Beyoncé, Black Feminism and Spirituality (Kinitra D. Brooks, Kameelah L. Martin)

Jordan-Zachery offers two dominant scripts that are often written onto Black women's, femmes', and girls' bodies: The Ass and Strong Black Woman scripts.

2019, Black Girl Magic Beyond the Hashtag (Julia S. Jordan-Zachery, Duchess Harris), page 21

[...] and any person who might partake in feminine expression (cis and trans women and men, nonbinary femmes...).

2019, Kristen J. Sollee, Cat Call: Reclaiming the Feral Feminine, page xvii

Admittedly, Kiedis was concerned about the lack of femme rockers on the bill: the only women featured were in British band Lush, who would open each day's festivities before a few hundred curious onlookers.

2009, Jeff Apter, Fornication: The Red Hot Chili Peppers Story

High heels are something like neckties for women, in that it can be harder to look both formal and femme without them.

2019 March 20, Summer Brennan, “Sex, power, oppression: why women wear high heels”, in The Guardian‎

"We want to base our relationships on who we are now, not who we once were" says radical femme bisexual Linda Moore.

1992, Deneuve

In comparison to butch bisexual women, it may be easier for femme bisexual women to locate male and female dating partners […]

2007, Beth A. Firestein, Becoming Visible: Counseling Bisexuals Across the Lifespan, Columbia University Press, page 305